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When we hold opposites, we access a larger inner space.

Instead of being torn between extremes – light and dark, strength and tenderness, reason and feeling – we sense that both belong to us and we begin a dialogue with these parts.

Coniunctio – the inner union – feels like:

🟡 Relief: the inner war quiets down.

🟡 Deeper vitality: energy that was trapped in conflict flows back into life, giving you creativity and resilience.

🟡 Richer perspective: we can hold paradox or contradiction – joy and sorrow, love and fear, certainty and doubt – without needing to resolve them forcefully. This is not a failure of reasoning but an acknowledgment that different aspects of our inner life can be simultaneously valid – it points to our multidimensional nature.

🟡 A sense of center: instead of being pulled by conflicting parts, we experience an inner axis, a conscious self that holds them.

Integrating opposites doesn’t erase tension or push down desire. It draws on them, reshaping them into something new. The experience can feel like an inner widening, a presence that seems larger, wiser, and more complete than what came before.